{"id":7343,"date":"2025-01-20T17:18:03","date_gmt":"2025-01-20T17:18:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/blog\/im-incredibly-selfish-and-its-why\/"},"modified":"2025-01-20T17:18:03","modified_gmt":"2025-01-20T17:18:03","slug":"im-incredibly-selfish-and-its-why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/blog\/im-incredibly-selfish-and-its-why\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m incredibly selfish and it&#8217;s why&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;m incredibly selfish and it&#8217;s why&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I do this as often as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spend time mentoring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And IT IS selfish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure I help someone else<br>But the way it makes me feel<br>Like I matter in someone&#8217;s life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It feels significant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I did it again just last week.<br>I met with a super smart computer science student.<br>But at a small liberal arts college in northern VT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which means\u2026<br>\u2192 No recruitment<br>\u2192 Hard to make connections<br>\u2192 Hard to know how to stand out<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We had a fantastic conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was able to help him learn:<br>\u2192 Who in the industry is hiring<br>\u2192 How to stand out from his peers<br>\u2192 What he needs to do to get hired<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was able to make introductions to hiring managers too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was 90 minutes out of my day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it gives me an enormous sense of fulfillment.<br>\u21b3 To help the next generation find their path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My question to you\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What &#8220;selfish&#8221; thing do you do that helps others?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m incredibly selfish and it&#8217;s why&#8230; I do this as often as possible. Spend time mentoring. And IT IS selfish. Sure I help someone elseBut the way it makes me feelLike I matter in someone&#8217;s life. It feels significant. So I did it again just last week.I met with a super smart computer science student.But&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":7344,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22,140],"tags":[61],"class_list":["post-7343","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ideas","category-media","tag-advisor-tips"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7343","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7343"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7343\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7344"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7343"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7343"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.blueleaf.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7343"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}